4 Easy Ways to be More Assertive with Women

In this post, we will be discussing why women love assertive men, and ways to be more assertive to attract women. Get into the habit of asserting your own opinions, and making decisions about what to actually do on your dates.

Being Assertive

Decisions such as: Where to go on dates, what movie to watch, which restaurant to eat at, and what time and day to have the date. 

Of course you can be considerate and ask for her preferences, what I'm referring to is showing your assertiveness through a display of leadership skills. I have never come across a woman that wants a follower, women want leaders.
 

 

Assertiveness, Self-Assurance And Leadership Skills in Men

No, you do not have to be the boss in a street gang nor a commanding officer in the military or the CEO of a Fortune 500 company(not to say those things aren't helpful), the specific leadership skills I'm talking about is leadership skills in a possible relationship.
 
Women aren't attracted to men with no backbone, or guys who aren't self-assured enough to make decisions and stick with them.
 

Here are a few ways men can be more assertive:
 
1. The restaurant brings you "not exactly what you ordered", politely tell the waiter so, most guys would not say anything, and that's the exact attitude that will let people think they can walk all over you, if you don't speak up. 

Please remember that human beings, generally just can't help themselves to walk over someone that presents themselves as a doormat.

2. The boss insists for the second weekend in a row for you to work overtime, again 'politely' and respectfully say "no, I can't". 

He will respect you more in the long run, and he might begin to ask more for your input, cause he knows you're self-assured enough to speak your mind.(please use proper judgment, I'm not keen on possibly getting someone fired here)

3. Be more direct with what you want from people, if you set a date with a woman, calmly tell her to be on time, if she fails to do so, again calmly tell her "this probably won't work if you're not punctual". 

This sends her the right messages. I've had many successes saying this to a woman, it also gives them a challenge, which women enjoy.

4. Improve and control what your eyes convey to other people, you can receive a magnitude of information from what you glean from someones eyes. 

being more assertive

Some people are so trained and/or observant, they can tell if you're upset, offended, nervous, unsteady, inebriated, unsure, resentful, impatient and the list goes on and one.
 
Oh, and women are observant as a hawk with a telescope.
 
It's should be easy to see why women love assertive men. Please feel free to share this article with a friend and/or your social network, thanks for visiting, also you're most welcome to follow me!

The Qualities Women Look for in Men

What are the qualities women look for in men they want to date? There's really no absolute statement one can make on the matter, all women are different and should not be painted with the same brush. 

good qualities in a man

Not every single woman will have the same preferences. There's no certainty in success when approaching or pursuing any woman, period.
 
But there is a standard formula of character traits and mannerism, and that can make the thin difference between failure or success.
 
In the world of attracting and dating women, confidence is king.

What Do Women Look for in a Man?

It has been the the attraction bed-stone that has been relevant for millions of years, up to this very day.
 
It's also next to impossible to hurt your chances when it comes attracting women and keep them romantically interested in you.
 
It's a daunting task to initiate conversations and banter with a woman, but if you're not even trying, you have to admit to yourself that there's a problem.
 
If you have problems with self esteem and maybe you're even a little awkward in social situations, doesn't mean you should sit by, while life is slowly getting away from you, life isn't a spectator sport.

Every person you decide not to talk to, every girl you don't try with, you're in essence writing the script of your life.  

Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends On It

what women look for in men

Here a few ways to start boosting your self esteem and ultimately, your confidence in interacting with more women.

• Consider getting a new wardrobe, dressing with a little more flair, often a complete change in clothes and style will make you feel better with your image. With one small improvement in self worth, you'll be more motivated to keep improving. Life isn't about perfection, it's about improvement.

• Be mindful of the body language you're giving off, everyone has some degree of skill in reading body language, it's not difficult to tell when someone is unhappy, excited, or uncomfortable. Being comfortable, and looking it and important in exuding confidence. 

• Be more assertive. You need to speak up if you expect to be heard, or you if you feel your opinion should matter. Learn to naturally assert your opinion into a conversation, contribute to it, cause the fact is, the friends you have, the more opportunities there will be to connect to a woman.

These are the primary qualities women look for in men. 

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