Women want Security, Emotional Safety, and Stability from a Relationship

financial security in relationships

No matter how often women want to deny it, every woman wants to be and feel protected.
 
They want to feel perfectly safe with someone, and there's nothing more endearing to a woman than feeling protected.
 
Perhaps on a first date you can take her to do something exciting, i.e. indoor sky diving, or to a theme park with really scary roller-coasters, or to a very lesser extent, a scary horror movie.
 
Wait for an appropriate time and mood to tell her that "you're safe with me". Do this subtly, not like you had it planned.
 

When I mentioned security, I meant financially. It's a hard truth that being secure financially is a major requisite of commitment for a woman.
 
Especially as we get further into the information age. I personally know many women that will not even consider going on a date with a man that doesn't have steady employment and a solid direction in life.
 
Although this is more anecdotal evidence, I highly doubt that it's just mere coincidence.
 
For me personally when the tables are reversed, I would rather be involved with a woman that had a steady career, with her own life, doing her own things.
 
It's just so much more attractive in my eyes. An articulate and gorgeous woman that can also pick up a check is sexy to me.
 
However, you will do well to keep in mind that not all women are alike, therefore not all women can be painted with the same brush, in a sense. This also includes a mental and emotional stability.
 
Women need to feel a sense of security, emotional safety, a mutual respect, and stability in a relationship. This is of course only if the woman in question is ready for a serious commitment.
 
Women that are still playing the field and currently in the dating phase will not necessarily require any of these male attributes.
 
So, if you're looking for the right woman to settle down with, work on possessing and displaying these three traits women look for in men.
 
Thus, it's easy to see why women want security and emotional stability from a relationship. Please feel free to share this article with a friend and/or your social network, thanks for visiting, also you're most welcome to follow me!

Be More Creative to Attract Women

This post deals with the mating value of male creativity. Not just women are drawn to people who are refreshingly original, everyone, man or woman can appreciate an individual that stands out in the crowd.

Women love being around creative men

Being original also applies to how you plan your dates. For heaven sake, unless your date specifically asks to be taken to a dinner and a movie, take some time and figure something better to do on a date.

Here's a case in point to always listen to a woman you're interested in, so you can pick up what she likes, and what she doesn't like.. Honestly? I believe everyone has originality to them no matter how well it's hidden.

What you should really focus on, beside listening to self-appointed gurus that claim originality can be manufactured, is to be honest with yourself and learn how to express yourself without approval from others, especially the opposite sex.
 
"You'll never break any ground on finding the right woman for yourself, if you can't present to the world who you really are."
 

Be Original and Exude Creativity

Like your innate originality, I also believe that everyone is creative, but for a plethora of reasons will be hesitant in truly expressing themselves.
 
Everyone is different, so please keep in mind that I can only speak upon generalities, and not specifics.

Here are some methods to aid you in discovering your creative side:
 
1. Experiment. If you're starting from the bottom with no clue what your creative outlet is, you'll have to forge ahead and find out.
 
At the very least you can do a little research and find out what you possibly could be interested in--this is the information age, if you can't go on the internet and find something you're remotely interested in, you'll have more serious concerns than finding a date.
 
2. Share. For every interest there is on this planet, there's a group designed around that particular interest. Get out there and find an organization that is revolved around your shared field of interest. 

On the web, there's a digital club, group, or forum for virtually everything, join up and share. This will help build your confidence and there's a good chance you'll meet a woman with something already in common with her.
 
3. Family and friends. Simply ask people that you trust and confide in what makes you creative in their eyes.
 

creative things to do

The people you keep around you know you the best, and should be able to give you great leads to find your creative outlet, once you find out what it is, incorporate in into your dating life. The more versatile you become, the less one-dimensional you will be to a woman.
 
The mating value of male creativity is a powerful tool to attract women. Please feel free to share this article with a friend and/or your social network, thanks for visiting, also you're most welcome to follow me!

How to Build Self Confidence in a Relationship

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If I would have to choose one great quality that attracts women, it would be, hands down, confidence.
 
There is no substitute to winning the affections of women than genuine confidence. 

Easier said than done, I know. It took me awhile to build up my confidence enough to even talk to women.

But trust me, it's like riding a bike or learning how to swim, once you learn to communicate with women properly and effectively, you'll never forget. 

If you're starting without much confidence, you'll have to begin with yourself. Learn to value yourself, because if you fail to, how do you expect a woman to value you? 

Embrace a new attitude, be proud of the things that you are good at, and develop the mindset that whatever you put your mind to, you can achieve it. 

Sometimes it's worthwhile and effective to exhibit the outward symptoms of confidence to give you a head start. It's "fake until you make it", so to speak.

Ways to Boost Your Self-Confidence:

building self confidence

• Make new editions to your wardrobe, dressing a little better and differently than you usually do will signify change, not just to others, but most importantly to yourself. Have a female friend help with your new clothes, fresh, stylish attire will boost your self-esteem and propel you in the right direction

• Following up on your new fashionable digs, consider a hairstyle change. The idea is to rid yourself of any trepidation, or self-doubt that you can change. When you look in the mirror, your eyes will see change and your mind will follow suit.

• Learn to speak up for yourself, have your own opinions and contribute to conversations around you, with the people around you. Life isn't a spectator sport, you have to get your ass and get in motion. (That's another point I will get into later, that men with no goals or exhibit little passion for life never end up with great women)

• When you walk into a room, other people will consciously and subconsciously make a note of how you carry yourself, especially women. It's just a fact of life that most humans will sum you up in less then a few minutes, it's a shame, and I understand that can suck. But what you are in control of is the few minutes you get to make a lasting impression. Wall tall and proud, and slowly, don't just zip across the room. Don't flail your arms or cross them, be relaxed and take time and pride in every stride.

improving self confidence

• Exercise and make a goal to get more fit, a better body image of yourself will go a long way to an increased sense of self worth. Additionally, you'll achieve a small goal, and reaching small goals will lead to bigger goals. Most people who are healthy and physically fit have a better chance of maintaining confidence, success in all facets of life, and a more fruitful connection with women. 

These are simple ways to improve your self confidence in a relationship. Please feel free to share this article with a friend and/or your social network, thanks for visiting, also you're most welcome to follow me!

What to Text a Girl You Like

This post is about calling or texting a woman and asking her out, after getting her number. Women don't generally hand out their number, without good cause or reason. 

Women in this day and age are more weary of men and their intentions.
 

how to get a girl to text you back

Time's have changed and if one can't adapt to the new dating scene, one will not thrive or have success with women.
 
Also, the fact that even if a woman did give you her number, there's no guarantee that she's ever going to pick up when you call or text, let alone be interested in dating you. Being handed a way to contact a woman again is just the first hurdle among many.

 

How to Talk to a Girl on the Phone

After successfully charming a woman to give out her phone number, the next step is incredibly important and will set the tone for failure or the possibility of a first date and ultimately connecting with a woman you're romantically interested it. 

Sometimes women will be in a different state of mind when you contact them, maybe she won't be as social or friendly, you just never know.

Good rule of thumb is to not have high hopes or expectations, yes I said NOT to have wild expectations.

Having expectations will inevitably make you seem too eager, and eagerness to a woman will be translated into desperation. 

If you're reeking of desperation, it's like a repellent for quality, worthwhile women. It's very important to build attraction with her early and set a tone that you're not in a rush to date. 

How to Start Texting a Girl

• Don't show too much interest, unless the woman you're dating displays interest in you first.

• Don't call or text a woman too often, if she fails to answer, leave a quick message, and give her a sufficient amount of time to get back to you. Under no circumstances should one call a multitudes of times in one day.

How to make a girl like you over text

• Do not be disrespectful, no woman anywhere appreciates feeling disrespected.

• Don't ask for a date right away, talk or text first, get to know her. Then when you're a having a good moment in the conversation, that is the time to strike.

• Do not be too timid, women like a guy with a little backbone. If she senses weakness in you, it will greatly hamper your chances of getting past the first phone call with her.

• Keep the conversation light, and fun. Women don't want to talk about something serious with someone they just met and barely even know.

• If a woman is busy, or has to get off the phone, respect that, and give a woman her space.

If you do get to a first date, try to keep in mind that women want things to develop naturally, don't try to push things faster than she's willing to go, keep a slow and steady pace.
 
Women will respect you more for not being in a rush, and will take it as a sign of a guy with options.
 
Calling or texting a woman and asking her out after getting her number should be exciting, not stressful. Please feel free to share this article with a friend and/or your social network, thanks for visiting, also you're most welcome to follow me!