Wednesday, May 31, 2017

When is the Best Time to Call a Woman Back

We've all heard the advice, not to call back a woman too soon, in the efforts of not appearing too eager.  It comes off as needy, and in the greater scheme of things, a little desperate.  And desperation has never been attractive to anyone I would imagine.  

The proper time to call back a woman is greatly dependent on how strong a connection you had with a woman. The stronger the connection, the sooner you should call or text a woman back.

When to Call Women Back
How to text women
Most people nowadays, will utilize text, because it's a more passive way to initiate further communication, without  the chance to be directly rejected.  Simply put, it's emotionally a safer way.

But some women still prefer a phone call, in this case one should use their best judgment. Wait too long to call a woman back and playing it cool can actually backfire. So, calling a girl the very next day after meeting is a better bet these days.  

But remember to keep it simple and don't drone on about anything. Especially anything too personal, or too heavy hearted.  A potential blossoming relationship should be nurtured slowly, and with a light heart.

When is the Best Time to Call a Woman 


I, personally would never call a woman before noon. Generally, the best time to call a woman back is in the late afternoon.  Most women are free during those hours, at least for a 5 minute conversation.  It also leaves the evening for her to "call you back", if she isn't free to talk when you do call. 

Usually, you don't want to let the conversation go on too long.  You want a woman to get the impression you have your own life, and have other things going on. But as mentioned before, every situation and every woman is different, and painting all women with the same brush is ill-advised. 

The more interest a woman seems to be showing, the more attention you can safely show in return is a good rule of thumb. The less interest she seems to display, the slower you should take things, and the more aloof you should act. It's just human nature to want things we perceive are out of our immediate reach.

Therefore, when a woman is bombarded with adoration and attention, they tend to lose interest.  What you want to achieve when calling a woman for the first time is to establish an easy-going, polite follow up on your first encounter.  

One wants to transition smoothly from one interaction to the next. Think of it like building a fire, you have to proceed slowly, and with great care.

How to talk to women
How to talk to women

What to Talk About with Women

Most of the time, women really just want to talk, especially about themselves.  Learn to sit back a little, be patient and actually just listen to what they're saying. Have an opinion, and practice reflecting thought provoking replies to further build attraction. Women love a guy that can hold a conversation and be insightful in the things they have passion for.

To sum it all up, if a woman really likes you, she'll want you to call her within five minutes.  It could be for a thousand different reasons why a woman would like you, but usually it's because she is visually attracted to you. 

Don't let anyone fool you, life is a beauty pageant, for the most part. I'm not saying that a woman can't be attracted for different reasons, but physical attraction is a huge factor. You think it's an accident that the most good looking people get the best jobs and perks in life? 

I'm lucky to be around a lot of attractive women, and you can bet they never get speeding tickets!  Granted, having a great personality might get you out a ticket as well, but I'd say a beautiful smile and sparkling eyes would let you get a away with murder. 

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Tuesday, November 29, 2016

How to Impress a Woman on a First Date

If you’re on a first date, it’s actually quite simple to impress a woman simply by treating her like any person you’ve just met.  

Ways to impress women
Impressing a woman on a first date
Most first dates that end badly are due to a man’s insatiable need to ruin things. Much like many mistakes men can make while on dates, they don’t have to happen.

Most women don’t expect to be wowed or impressed by you, they’re just expecting to get to know the person they’re on the date with, plain and simple.  

By chance if they are impressed, consider that as a bonus.  Men get into trouble when they try too hard to paint the image of what they believe the women want to see, which is a terrible idea.

Things to avoid if you want to impress a woman on a first date:

  • Don’t argue with a woman, have spirited debates that flows and ends respectfully, but shouting and arguments aren’t conducive to a successful first date. 
  • Respect a woman’s personal space, until you receive clear signs of interest, even then, proceed slowly and with extreme caution.
  • Be yourself, just not too much.  Meaning you should never give away too much too soon to a woman on a first date.  First dates are for fun and small talk, and if you’re lucky, some flirting.
  • Strive to be a challenge to women, hold back any feelings that might be bubbling inside, ready to spill out.
Slow down and let things develop naturally, don’t force things.  Additionally, I can't stress enough the fact that one should never crowd a woman physically, that is always unacceptable.

Simple Ways to Impress a Woman on a First Date

Basically, it’s mostly not what you do, but what you do not do to impress a woman on a first date. Men have this crazy notion that if they just put on a good show, they will win the affections of a woman. 

The truth is women aren’t looking for a show, they’re looking for someone they can genuinely connect with, women want the truth. 

Instead of working on a facade that you might think will impress a woman on a first date, isn’t more worthy of your time to find a woman that will be attracted to the “real you”? 

Being yourself saves you both time from investing in a fallacy, that will most likely end in a non-compatibility. In my personal experience, women will respect a man that presents himself openly, and without fear of judgement. 

They will view you as genuine, confident, and someone they can at the very least, be friends with–additionally, introduce you to their girlfriends, leading to more first dates

trying to impress a woman
Impressing women on the first date
Men should also keep in mind that, most first dates won’t lead to second dates, for a plethora of reasons. There is no room for hurt feelings from perceived rejections in successful dating

Men that have bad first dates tend to forgo dating altogether, which is only counter productive and self destructive, in my opinion. Here is the real secret into impressing a woman on a first date..

Don't try to impress them at all, because a woman that is worth all that trouble will see right through it, anyway.  Most women are use to men trying to impress them, take a more relaxed stance, it will do wonders. Please feel free to share this article with friends, and you're most welcomed to follow me!

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